healthy living

The Yoga that We Need

USA, California. Natural woman, 30's - 40's, in meditation outdoors.After class a student came to apologize for being late but they really needed yoga after flying out of state and back for cancer treatments. I mentioned there were yoga for cancer classes, and their response was tentative. In no way was the person dismissive, they were in the medical field and they appreciated those classes. But the need to feel normal, a part of and outside of a medical setting made them feel better, even if they couldn’t participate fully in a regular class.

It reminded me of a study I helped facilitate years ago studying yoga for veterans. Freshly out of a yoga for veterans training, I taught the 4 week series of yoga classes. The training was very informative, specific on what I could and couldn’t teach, how to avoid triggering PTSD, accommodate injuries and create a safe respectful class. However, for this group of veterans, it wasn’t right for them. They needed to be more physically challenged, they didn’t like the gentleness of the practice. They didn’t want or feel the need to be accommodated beyond any injuries they might have.

As a yoga teacher, it’s in my nature to try and accommodate everyone and make yoga accessible to all. It’s why a lot of yoga classes have been tailored into specific offerings like cancer recovery, veterans, back pain, corporate environments, addictions, prenatal, etc.  And for good reason, as there are specific practices needed for certain conditions and some practices to avoid completely. However, sometimes the individuals who fit those demographics for those classes need something different.  I’ve seen people undergoing cancer treatment in my gym classes. I’ve had people missing body parts taking a regular class. While they might be able to get a class specific to their condition, needing to feel a part of is why they’re at the gym or studio.

For me, as a teacher, if I can recognize that there may be a reason why someone is there beyond whether they can fully participate in the class or not, I allow them the experience of being a part of.  I have students that wear shoes during the practice. I have students that sit in the back and barely move and yet come every week. If I don’t worry if they’re doing every pose, if they’re late or not, then I get to practice union too.  In this space, we are all together. We are all practicing yoga. And it’s the yoga that we need in that moment.

retreats

Lean In

New Brunswick Fall 2007
Me at a very happy place in life

This has been a mantra of mine for a while.

The realization of sometimes people get way too much on their plate. And it’s brutal.

I’ve stopped saying “This too shall pass” and more of “What can I do?”

What I’ve learned:
It’s way more important to listen…
Lean in and hear what they’re saying..really what they’re saying…
Offer more ‘I love you’s’ than ‘this is what you can do’
And personally, when there’s moment of joy I lean into them
It’s not that life is hard
no, it’s really, really hard sometimes
but there are moment of joy that if truly present, I can experience them, be present in them.
And those memories carry me through the hard times.

So when life is hard what are some things that can be done? Self-care needs to be number one. It’s not because it’s an instant relief. It’s putting on the air mask so you can do what needs to be done.

According to Ayurveda we’re entering a very VATA period.

Autumn. Dryness.

Can you spend 5 minutes before bed applying some lotion or oil to your feet or hands?

Take a bath with some drops of lavender essential oils?

Turn off the devices and spend 5 minutes practicing a slow deep breath before you go to sleep. Sleep.Sleep in when you can. Stay in bed even if you think you’re really just going to get up, let yourself lay there. I’ve often thought that I’d just rather get up but if I lay there sometimes I’ll fall back asleep.

Watch a funny movie. Watch another one. Laughter raises the good hormones and feelings in your body. Even if laughter is the last thing you think you can do.

Drink more water to help your body keep functioning.

Simple things, not another to-do list item.

 

 

 

classes, healthy living

Summer Offerings

Summer is such a sweet time of fresh food, barbecues, weddings and vacations. It’s a great time to have some mini-retreats where you spend a couple hours off social media, phone off in a park or at the beach. My favorite thing is to cut up fresh pineapple and put in the the fridge for a refreshing cold treat. When it’s too hot to cook, which is often at my house, I like to stock up on salad fixings and then add my favorite protein. Oprah just saved my life this summer with this 13 No-Cook Recipes and after trying them all it was fantastic.

My Summer Offerings:

Mondays – Gentle Yoga in a semi-private setting 6:30p at Integration Fitness

Wednesdays – A Slow Flow Practice in Ward Canyon Park 6:30p. How about a flow practice without all the pushups (chatturungas)? Summer is hot enough, come enjoy a challenging yet supported practice in the park.

Mondays and Wednesdays 12p Hatha Flow at UC San Diego

Thursdays 8:30a at EOS Fitness in Point Loma

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